Two of my cousins tied the knot. Two weddings within a span of six months. One not very long after getting to know each other, while the other for almost a decade before they decided to settle down. The last wedding I attended before these two was probably in primary school, a long long time ago. Then, it was just food and drinks. Now, it seems so different. I looked at the bride and groom, smiling so merrily throughout the whole night. What's in it? Finding someone whom you'd treasure for the rest of your life... Coming home day after day to the same person... How could someone do that? It's almost like a spell, like magic... inexplicable, as my glimpse has taught me.
I really wonder about it many times. Most of the songs composed are about love. One way or another. Each bring a new perspective, new aspect. It's much easier to believe the lyrics now. Before that, these songs were beautiful to me because of the tune. So clearly, "love is a many splendid thing" to quote Nat King Cole.
There are quite a number of friends who have seemed to have gotten someone. I wonder how they feel? Is it different from the way much older adults feel? What about those who are in their late golden years? Does a relationship like this feel the same way throughout? These thoughts race through my mind as I watch the bride and groom down the isle, up on to stage, toasting with everyone...
My time will come of course. Best not to rush it. This is very mature stuff, and only time can prepare one for it. Life never has a dull moment. Another day, another thing learned.